Erotic Empowerment: Breakthrough shame into sensual confidence & grow skills to live a more passionate and connected life

Free introductory sessions through the end of February & Sliding Scale packages through March. Sign up for your free consult here.

Our struggles with intimacy, love and sex touch the heart of what it means to be human, and yet so often we hide away these pains and pleasures… shaming them and keeping them hidden, or repressing and then acting out unconsciously. Opening to explore this terrain might be scary or taboo, but the fruits of that opening are awesome.

For most folks, these shadows includes our relationship to our self-worth, power, & unwieldy desires . When those desires get suppressed after a lifetime of cultural & religious conditioning, or knotted up due to trauma, the result is a blunted lifeforce that looks like…

• avoiding the conversations you need to have because you’re stuck in a loop or lack the tools

• letting desires come out through sideways addictions instead of directly going after what would deeply nourish and delight you

• going numb and losing access to lifegiving passion & purpose

It doesn’t have to be like that. Intimacy coaching can help you:

• work through shame and feel good in your body

• know and name your boundaries & desires

• build communication skills to get your needs met, nourish your beloveds, and navigate conflict with more skill and intimacy

• give and receive great sex…if that’s what you want  

Intimacy stirs our deepest fears and longings, and it’s normal for your situation to feel sensitive and maybe scary because society shames the shit out of our primal, animal bodies. “Issues” like low-libido, erectile “dysfunction,” taboo desires, and body/fantasy shame are elephants in the room—common pain points that many people feel but few people talk about. We can go there. We can resource you. You can…

• cultivate deeper somatic & spiritual resource as you move into tender territory

• rekindle sexuality after trauma, cultural/religious conditioning, or bed death with a long term partner

• breakthrough parts that feel hopeless and open to more lifegiving erotic energy

Through the end of February, I’m offering free introductory sessions to give you a sense of the work and sliding scale packages through March. SIGN UP HERE.

Deshamifying & befriending your erotic power is one of the most potent tools you can use for your own awakening and as a force for love and good in the world. In a moment when global structures crumble and traditional sources of security don’t have our backs, touching into Eros is like plugging into the livewire—the regenerative, empowering, creative, nourishing force that powers our lives and our world. Don’t let that shut down. Don’t lose access to that because some people are assholes, or because the Church said otherwise. Take your power back and feel good while you do it. Reach out here and let’s get started.

Coaching is not therapy. I won’t be going into the backstory of your relational patterns or doing specific trauma work. Instead, we attune to the actual relationship—between us—to put in the reps of your new relational toolkit. Sessions include somatic exercises, communication games, and~ you guessed it~ intimacy! Expect to feel deep, turn on, and leave more empowered to craft or strengthen the relationships you desire.

You can sign up for a free 30 minute consult here to see if we’re a fit. Regardless of whether we work together, you’ll leave with more clarity around your desires and needs. Amen!